Wednesday, May 18, 2011

domestic violence


+What is domestic violence? Domestic Violence is a violent confrontation between family or household members involving physical harm, sexual assault, or fear of physical harm. Family or household members include spouses / former spouses, those in (or formerly in) a dating relationship, adults related by blood or marriage, and those who have a biological or legal parent-child relationship. The violence may not happen often, but may remain a hidden and constant terrorizing factor. Domestic violence is not only physical and sexual violence but also psychological. Psychological violence means intense and repetitive degradation, creating isolation, and controlling the actions or behaviors of the spouse through intimidation or manipulation to the detriment of the individual. Domestic violence destroys the home. No one deserves to be abused. The responsibility for the violence belongs to the abuser. It is not the victim's fault!         +Cause of Domestic Violence: Domestic Violence impacts on many people in all kinds of ways. These are the cause of domestic violence.
1.      Illiteracy: The lack of a proper education always becomes a great cause of a domestic violence especially for the women while she got married. This is the only reason when the women do not understand their actual rights and they do not even get the enthusiasm to fight against it. These kinds of women feel that their caretakers are their Gods and they have to listen whatever they are instructing. Women should have a proper education and an awareness of her human rights 
2.      Economical calamities or poverty:
The condition of les monitory support and the condition of poverty is a great cause of women abuse or a condition of domestic violence. Mostly, in a poor family, the young girls are forced to get married to a person who is quite older than she is. This becomes a great cause of domestic violence. The girls who usually are forced to have sexual activities forcefully with a person who is very older, she also can be beaten very frequently by a severely drunk husband. Poverty can also lead to the parents to sell their girls or force them to get into other un-social activities and gives the horrible look to a domestic violence.
3.      Some religious dilemma:      
The types of religions are the cultural property for every country.   However, it can become a great havoc when some of its rituals damage the identity inside a home. Still now, many of the developing countries are suffering with redundant religious rituals.
4.      An unsaid relation:
In a case, if the partner is not getting a proper attention, he/she can develop a feeling of insecurity. In many cases they can also develop an extra relation within or outside the family and this can result in many of the domestic violence. These types of cases habitually occur where the husband is working and a woman is a housewife. Generally, the husband develops and extra-marital relation and forget his responsibilities for his family and wife. It leads to a regular fight between the couple and domestic violence. Currently, in the growing society, the cases of an extra–marital affairs are very common and a significant cause of domestic violence on women.
5.      Alcohol abuse:
The cases of alcohol abuse or a great intake of alcohol by the male partner is very general. It can be seen in any part of the society. In a condition of excessive alcohol intake, the male partner creates his wife and kids.
+Effect of domestic violence: domestic violence is a serious problem, if in family society has domestic violence
Child: you know what happen while the child see the domestic violence being done by a husband to a wife or wife to a husband? This problem can be affected to them such as physical problem school problems and one more in the future when their grow up if they are taught other ways then violence in resolving the issues at hand in life, they will also use violence to resolve issues as well in their live and domestic violence also effects many woman latter on. And when this action still continues maybe relationship in one family become violence relationship.  
                                                                                                                  


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